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H863 · Hebrew · Old Testament
אִתַּי
Ittai
Proper Noun — Personal Name
Ittai / With Me / Near

Definition

Ittai (אִתַּי, H863) is a personal name meaning 'with me,' 'near me,' or 'timely.' Two significant figures bear this name in Scripture: (1) Ittai the Gittite — a Philistine from Gath who followed David into exile during Absalom's rebellion, one of David's most devoted commanders; (2) Ittai son of Ribai — one of David's 'Thirty,' mighty warriors listed in 2 Samuel 23:29. The name derives from the preposition et (with/near) with the first-person suffix.

Usage & Theological Significance

Ittai the Gittite stands as one of Scripture's most remarkable portraits of covenant loyalty and radical discipleship. When David urged him to return to Jerusalem during the crisis of Absalom's revolt (2 Samuel 15:19–22), Ittai responded in language that echoes Ruth's commitment to Naomi: 'As the LORD lives, and as my lord the king lives, wherever my lord the king may be, whether in death or life, even there also will your servant be.' A foreigner — a Philistine, no less — became a picture of the loyalty that surpasses ethnic and national identity. His devotion was not to a nation but to a person. This foreshadows the cross-cultural nature of the kingdom of God, where commitment to the King defines belonging far more than bloodline. Ittai's name ('with me') became a lived truth — he stayed when others fled.

Key Bible Verses

2 Samuel 15:19 The king said to Ittai the Gittite, 'Why should you come along with us? Go back and stay with King Absalom.'
2 Samuel 15:21 But Ittai replied to the king, 'As surely as the LORD lives, and as my lord the king lives, wherever my lord the king may be, whether in death or life, even there also will your servant be.'
2 Samuel 18:2 David sent out his troops, a third under the command of Joab, a third under Joab's brother Abishai son of Zeruiah, and a third under Ittai the Gittite.
Ruth 1:16 'Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God.'
John 15:13 Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends.

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