Continence is the Spirit-wrought self-restraint of bodily desires, especially sexual ones. Paul speaks of it directly in 1 Corinthians 7:9: "if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn." In the KJV, the word translated temperance in the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23) is the same Greek egkrateia — mastery of self. Continence is not repression or sexlessness; it is the discipline that orders desire toward its covenant end (marriage) and refuses to be ruled by appetite. The man who cannot govern his own body cannot govern a household or a church (1 Timothy 3:2-5). Continence is foundational masculine virtue.
Self-restraint, especially sexual.
Self-restraint, especially in regard to bodily appetites; in the New Testament, both a gift given to some for the celibate life and a discipline asked of all believers in matters of sexual desire.
1 Corinthians 7:9 — "But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn."
1 Corinthians 9:25 — "And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate (egkrateuetai) in all things."
Galatians 5:22-23 — "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace... temperance: against such there is no law."
Mocked as repression rather than received as Spirit-given strength.
Therapy-culture has reframed continence as repression and repression as harmful, with the result that any desire-restraint is suspect. Scripture distinguishes Spirit-given mastery from white-knuckle suppression — but the modern conversation has lost the distinction. The corruption is making the virtue feel like the pathology.
Greek egkrateia — self-control.
['Greek', 'G1466', 'egkrateia', 'self-control, continence']
['Greek', 'G1467', 'egkrateuomai', 'to exercise self-control']
"Continence is Spirit-fruit, not white-knuckle willpower."
"Pray for the gift, not for absence of desire."