The Christian discipline of receiving strangers, brethren, and travelers into one's home with food, lodging, and substantive fellowship. The Greek philoxenia literally means love of strangers. The biblical pattern is established in the OT patriarchs: Abraham's reception of the three visitors at the oaks of Mamre (Genesis 18:1-8, the famous narrative in which the three turn out to be the LORD and two angels); Lot's reception of the angels in Sodom (Genesis 19:1-3); the Shunammite woman's deliberate accommodation of Elisha (2 Kings 4:8-10). The NT extends the discipline as obligatory: distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality (Romans 12:13); use hospitality one to another without grudging (1 Peter 4:9); Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares (Hebrews 13:2, recalling Abraham). Elders are particularly required to be hospitable (1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:8). The Lord Jesus identifies Himself with the stranger: I was a stranger, and ye took me in (Matthew 25:35). The patriarchal-Reformed reader recovers hospitality as the substantive household discipline of opening the home to brethren and strangers with food, lodging, and the substantive fellowship of conversation around the table, the family worship in the evening, the breakfast the next morning. The household-economy patriarchal vision integrates hospitality structurally: the wife as given to hospitality, the father as the master of the household receiving the stranger, the children formed in the practice from an early age, the church-of-strangers learning the brotherhood of Christ around the dinner table.
Christian discipline of receiving strangers, brethren, and travelers into one's home; Greek philoxenia (love of strangers); required of all (Romans 12:13) and especially of elders (1 Timothy 3:2).
HOSPITALITY, n. (Christian discipline) Receiving strangers, brethren, and travelers into one's home with food, lodging, and substantive fellowship. Greek philoxenia (G5381), love of strangers. OT patterns: Abraham at Mamre (Genesis 18); Lot in Sodom (Genesis 19); Shunammite woman with Elisha (2 Kings 4). NT requirements: Romans 12:13; 1 Peter 4:9; Hebrews 13:2 (entertained angels unawares). Elders especially: 1 Timothy 3:2; Titus 1:8. Christ identifies with the stranger: I was a stranger, and ye took me in (Matthew 25:35). Patriarchal-Reformed recovery: the household discipline structurally integrated — wife given to hospitality, father receiving the stranger, children formed in the practice.
Hebrews 13:2 — "Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares."
Romans 12:13 — "Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality."
1 Peter 4:9 — "Use hospitality one to another without grudging."
Matthew 25:35 — "For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in."
Modern consumerist hospitality reduces the practice to occasional restaurant-meals with peers; biblical hospitality is the substantive household reception of strangers, brethren, and travelers.
The principal contemporary corruption of biblical hospitality is its reduction to consumerist forms: occasional restaurant-meals with peers; brief social gatherings in commercial spaces; the entertainment-industry register of hosting rather than substantive household-reception. Biblical philoxenia is the opposite: opening one's home (not the restaurant) to strangers (not curated peer-circles) with food, lodging, and substantive fellowship over hours and days. The patriarchal-Reformed recovery is the household-integrated practice: the wife as keeper-at-home given to hospitality, the father as master of the household receiving the stranger, the children formed in the brotherhood-of-Christ pattern as they help serve the meal and the guest is welcomed into family worship around the table.
Greek philoxenia; love of strangers; OT patriarchal pattern; NT requirement; household integration.
['Greek', 'G5381', 'philoxenia', 'hospitality; love of strangers']
['Greek', 'G5382', 'philoxenos', 'hospitable, lover of strangers']
['Hebrew', 'H1481', 'gur', 'to sojourn, dwell as a stranger']
"Hospitality: receiving strangers, brethren, travelers into one's home."
"Some have entertained angels unawares (Hebrews 13:2)."
"Required of elders (1 Timothy 3:2) and of all believers (Romans 12:13)."