Strife is bitter conflict — angry contention — the deliberate fanning of sparks between people. Scripture lists it among the works of the flesh: "adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife..." (Galatians 5:19-21). Proverbs names its source bluntly: "Only by pride cometh contention" (Proverbs 13:10); "A wrathful man stirreth up strife: but he that is slow to anger appeaseth strife" (15:18); "As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife" (26:21). The peacemaker is blessed (Matthew 5:9); the strife-stirrer is named alongside the sexually immoral. Christian men must refuse to be the spark, even when the wood is dry.
STRIFE, n.
1. Exertion or contention for superiority; contest of emulation. 2. Contention in anger; fighting; battle. 3. Opposition; contrariety; contrast. 4. The agitation produced by different qualities or principles.
Proverbs 13:10 — "Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom."
Galatians 5:20 — "Hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies."
Proverbs 17:14 — "The beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with."
James 3:16 — "Where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work."
Modern engagement-economics rewards strife and starves peace.
Solomon's diagnosis is precise: only by pride cometh contention (Prov 13:10). Every strife in marriage, every quarrel in church, every political feud, every keyboard war — root it down, and you find pride. Peace breaks out where pride bows; strife multiplies where pride preens. The Spirit-filled man is identifiable by the absence of strife around him, not the abundance of it.
Solomon's second word is just as practical: the beginning of strife is as when one letteth out water (Prov 17:14). Once the leak starts, the dike fails. Most strife is preventable in the first ten seconds — before the reply is sent, before the rumor is forwarded, before the soft answer is replaced by the sharp one. Leave off contention before it be meddled with.
Hebrew riv (H7379); Greek eris (G2054).
H7379 — riv — strife, controversy, dispute
H4066 — madon — strife, contention
G2054 — eris — strife, wrangling
"Look under every strife; you will find pride at the root."
"A man of God refuses to be a vending machine for arguments."
"The first second of strife is the cheap one to extinguish; by the third you are paying retail."